Be splendid

On my reading list is a sensational blog called "just be splendid". I recommend it for eye candy and for the beautiful wordsmiths she finds and includes in her posts. From a couple of weeks ago for YOUR reading pleasure dear one. Enjoy and let this wash over you and delight you as it did I.

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“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.

Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company… a church… a home.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past… we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude… I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.

And so it is with you… we are in charge of our attitudes.”

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Love this

While looking for baby clothes for my soon-to-be-arriving new nephew I came across some words of wisdom from my homeland:

He oranga ngākau

He pikinga waiora

 

Positive feelings in your heart will raise your sense of self-worth

 

Love that.

Love Fest

Yesterday was Valentines day. I know many people who say that they don't "buy into" the commercial nature of the day and I get that. But I have to say, though the hubs and I honor our relationship daily, I do love the energy of Valentines Day. The lovers young and old out celebrating their unions - some many years long, some in their infancy. Why not have a day like this?

We buy into it I'm glad to say. Dinner reservations were made and gifts were purchased - he did specially awesome this year and ironically we both went vintage in our approach for gifts - I found him a 1950's rockabilly workshirt and he...

The best part about this little lamb vase is that this past weekend the hubs and I wandered through antique store laden Snohomish and I said to him to look out for these little guys... Little did I know he had already purchased this one! My ultimate plan for spring time decor is to have fleets of these all over castle Allen. They are so cheery. Look at those faces! For now I have a big and lil sister. Thanks honey - you're the best!

He also found a stereoscope photo of two little lovers. I forgot to photograph this for you but it's awesome.

Gary is the best thing that's ever happened to me. I hope you all find partners like this dear reader. Daily he makes me a better person. He knows me better than anyone has ever known me and makes me feel valued and cared for like never before. He's my heaven on earth. I love you Gazza!!

For all of you I love, especially my Gary

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Weekend wonders

The weekend started really great. A bonus check, a trip to purchase our first brand new tv. I chose some great new glasses - some fabulous cats eye Betsey Johnson's black with pink sparkles (in the INSIDE), plus as luck would have it... The wonderful Mary at Costco shared with us that there was a voucher - $30 off a pair of frames .... So course I also got sunglasses. Prescription sunglasses. So a two pairs of groovy glasses for only $173. In only a few days I will have them.

Then the unthinkable. My besties fur baby Ashley passed away. I think if you have a dog in your family you will have some understanding of how much they mean to us and what a true tragedy their loss is. Ashley had gone through so much recently but her passing was unrelated to her recent trials. She was a great pup and will be missed.

Even though Tad was going through so much and had no sleep he pulled himself together as best he could and came down from Mt Vernon so we could all go out together. It was such fun, we played mini golf, raced go karts and the boys had a go in the batting cage.

And what is more comforting than fro-yo. There was nothing more to be done than to finish the afternoon with Menchies.

Sunday Gary and I had a couple of hours to ourselves. We headed to Snohomish for antique store grazing. There were a bazillion birds on wires in Snohomish

And unexpectedly, British telephone boxes, at the back of a furniture shop.

I really love Snohomish. We almost always come away with a little something from here... But I resisted this time.

The weekend finishes too quick. See you tomorrow Monday.

Day 9: Front door

Luminous, vibrant, timeless Puerto Rico. Oh how I love you. I can't wait to visit you again some day. Till then I live on the memories of old San Juan. Sigh.

Today's challenge is front door. What better place to have a front door pic than San Juan. It's a riot of color on color. And it somehow works in a crazy synergy. This is a very typical walk up apartment in old San Juan. Don't you love?

Day 8:The Sun

I forgot to post yesterday, but this was the photo from day 8 : the sun. Not so much mr sol yesterday do I was a tinch concerned I would get a picture.. But then the clouds parted and what do you know - a ménage of weather - rain clouds, wind, blue sky and sun on a winters afternoon all at once.

Cute as a button

Day 7 of the photo challenge - "button". This is a button on my favorite chair here at Castle Allen. It's huge. It sits in the corner of our room every month except over the holidays when it gives up its spot for the Christmas tree.

This chesterfield leather chair was $20 at a thrift store - and we happened across it on 50% off day so friends. Be green, green with envy when you realize this was $10. The cost of a glass of decent vino ... But years and years of comfort. I heart you big chair.

Day 5 and 6

French toast.... It's what's for breakfast AND what's for day 5 photo...

Day 6 = "dinner" and tonight thanks to Ollie's Mom, we had chicken and mushroom enchiladas made with love by the hubs.

Day Four

This is not such a great image. But it is of a stranger which IS the topic du jour

Day Two and Three

February's Project continues. Day two and three

Day Two - "Words":
The splendor - OH THE SPLENDOR!!!! There was no way to capture the majesty of this site on an iPhone. Yes - I love my iPhone - but the mount is over 200 miles from where I took this photo. Does that give you a clue as to how HUGEMUNGO this hill is?

I am fortunate, so fortunate, to work in an office with this breathtaking view daily.

Day three's task was hands.... As if you needed my help to work that out! Ha! This is B.I.L Patrick, Geneva, my Hubs, and Elliott. Love this photo.

Photo a day February

Photo challenge has been laid down by my hubs. A photo a day. Phew. I'm up for it. Here's the list:

Here's the first installment. This is my first picture, day one = the view, from my desk....

Sage advice

 Unkindness hurts, and it does not often fade away without leaving some hurt behind. Kindness is so important, and boundaries can be kept while being kind. You see, boundaries are SO important - critical, even. We must never allow others to identify and then abuse us where we are weak. We must not continually walk back into battles that will never never go away with some people, but we must kindly walk away from those battles. We must not let others determine our worth, ever. We must not allow our hearts to be abused, manipulated or exploited.

We can be kind to everyone and wish everyone the best, but this does not mean that we need to allow everyone to the closest parts of our souls. We must guard the gates to our hearts and recognize that it is a true honor for anyone to ever come close to the deepest parts of us, and this honor should be reserved for a select few who only want the best for us and who love us exactly as we are.

If you are being hurt, abused, manipulated, bullied or diminished by someone else, please put a stop to it, dear friend. Be kind, wish everyone the best, do what you can to help, but never ever ever allow someone to chip away at parts of you. You are way too important.

You have a right to stand up for yourself. You have a right to walk away. You have a right to go where the peace is.

You are so very loved.SOURCE: www.bravegirlsclub.com